When we laugh and play, we tap into our ecstatic body. That part of us that is silly and mischievous, giddy and excited. Awakening the ecstatic body is a big key to having memorable sex.

When you consciously connect and bond through creative play, you have a shared intention to uplift and support each other. This inspires a state of mind that strengthens the feeling of connection and amplifies arousal when sensuous energy is added.

Bending the rules can be fun, too. And in the best adult games, everyone is a winner.